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What Wikipedia can’t tell you about sensuality?

If you rely on Google for your sexual education, you’re likely to already be disappointed with your findings. Studies claim women lose interest in sex before men in long-term relationships. But that can’t be the whole story. Online facts and figures don’t help us figure out why, or how to maintain a delicious, committed, sexually fulfilling relationship. 

Women lose interest in sex due to a lack of intimacy and the feelings of loss of connection. So, is it possible to hold onto these in long-term relationships?

The answer is YES! If both parties are willing to do the work and are willing to take responsibility for their own sensuality, sexuality and connection. Are you willing? Or have you already left? Are you about to be another Wikipedia stat? 

In many societies, women are told that they don’t really need sex, sex is for naughty girls, sex is overrated and we all agree it definitely is if you are only having wham-bam fast intercourse. Women are not encouraged to learn about pleasure – particularly their own. They’re not encouraged to educate themselves about their own sensuality. It’s time to change that.

 

The way to have a delicious, committed relationship is:

  • to have all of you engaged
    • there is nothing more sexy than showing up as all of you, remember the last time someone was totally there with you… how did you feel? Loved, Appreciated…?
  • spend time being present with each other
    • turn off all distractions, put aside time for each other, listening and being with every cell.
  • enjoy sensual and connection activities other than intercourse –
    • hold hands, play and explore each others faces, hands, walk together, read to each other, do activities that build that connection without it leading anywhere else… keeping the endorphins flowing.
  • being curious with each other
    • Imagine it is the first time you are touching them, being with them pretend you know nothing and allow your curiosity to take over.
  • allowing the relationship to deepen
    • Be willing to take the next steps together, allowing the hurdles that always show up to take you deeper and build more connection and ask yourselves “what would love do?”
  • being vulnerable with each other
    • Ask those questions, be seen in your glory and sadness or unhappiness, being vulnerable is a sign of strength and is long standing way to connect from the heart and emotionally.
  • knowing you are both in – no one is looking for the door (even if it only a sideways glance)
    • when we trust both of us will be there no matter what – we are both committed, to connection and growth we are able to go deep, be vulnerable and have a delicious life together.
  • have fun
    • Above all else have fun, be light, play with each other, remember relationships are enjoyable and bring the best out of one another.

My experience with myself and working with my clients, is once women are turned on from the inside to their innate sensual and sexual being they know (or are on a journey to find out) what they like, how much they like it, they are more confident in their body, they have more self esteem and sexual esteem and they radiate from the inside out.

If you know you want your relationships to have long term satisfaction in all areas and you are tired of being turned off contact me today for a sacred conversation.
https://myolawoodsprivatediscussion.as.me/?appointmentType=1307433

 

Myola Woods is an Author, Certified Sexological Bodyworker, Somatic Sex Educator, International Intimacy & Relationship Coach and Winner of the Altitude Awards, Rising Star – Brave Award 2018.

Contact Myola TODAY!. myola@eroticcoaching.com.au

 

How Female Ejaculators are making the world a better place

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How female ejaculators are making the world a better place!

Did you know only 6% of women ejaculate regularly?

Over 50% of women have had some liquid during orgasm

Are you one of these? Have you ever had the urge to pee during s>e>x and held back?

This is often one of the telltale signs of ejaculation coming, most of us usually stop at this point.

The demonstration:

Imagine this: I am at an ejaculation demonstration. I was standing at the end of a massage table as close to the ‘business’ end as possible. In front of me was a lady standing holding a large container (about the size of 2 litre ice cream container), the brave woman on the table was giving an ejaculation demonstration, the facilitator was as per their agreement was rubbing her G spot enthusiastically and vigorously, the woman’s partner was holding her hand and about 30 people were in the room, mostly holding their breath and you could almost hear a pin drop… in between the sounds of pleasure enveloped the room as the woman on the table arousal grew and grew.

If you have ever been uncomfortable with sounds of pleasure from another room in a hotel or your friend got lucky and you didn’t or most unbearable your parents… I am sure you can only imagine what it was like for both the brave woman demonstrating and the room full of spectators.

I had heard of ejaculation, I had never seen it, the brave woman was a seasoned and explosive ejaculator hence the large container being held in front of her, I found out – as you can imagine all this was a little off putting and it took a bit longer than normal.

With a silent room bar the delights of pleasure eventually the brave woman did ejaculate and from my close point of view it was absolutely amazing at the point of surrender and extreme orgasm her body bared down, her pelvis and vagina opened, and fluid gushed out… it reminded me of giving birth (not that I saw my children being born) the sensation and feeling of letting go and boom there’s a baby’s head. The room also let out an almighty sigh!!

Apparently, she did not have as much fluid as she normally would, however, it certainly opened my eyes to greater possibilities.

I spoke with this brave woman later expressing my gratitude for her vulnerability and  we discussed how she felt, confirming the baring down and opening sensations and actions, which was useful information because I already had the somatic / body memory for this.

The journey:

This was the beginning of my journey into female ejaculation…

All genders can orgasm and ejaculate, and we have the equipment to do it, which was the purpose of the demonstration I attended nearly 10 years ago was to remove the myths and barriers holding women’s sexuality from being fully expressed.

I hear you asking “Why Myola? Why?” and “if it is possible why is it not so common”?.

Mostly women with Vulvas are not encouraged to explore pleasure, little girls get chastised for touching themselves, society over sexualizes women but they aren’t supposed to like or enjoy having sex.

The ancients knew of female ejaculation and called it ‘Amrita nectar of the gods’ and often thought of as a clearing of emotions and bringing new waters to the body.

We are remembering our sexualness and orgasmicness empowerment, even though we can ejaculate it is often a journey, in my own experience and working with my many clients. A journey of self-discovery, allowing pleasure to have its way, to be fully in the body, to follow the sensations and prompts from the building arousal and be vulnerable with yourself and your partner is this very open, blissful, surrendered, deep intimate space, not to mention you might make a mess!

When a woman learns, embodies, knows her ejaculations, her level of trust, confidence, wholeness, love and intimacy has had a total upgrade on all levels – Orgasm 2.0 installed!

If you are curious, want to know specific techniques, for your body, mind and soul with the practicalities or you just want to upgrade to Orgasm 2.0, come and join us for my Ejaculating orgasm online webinar series, we have teachings, embodiment meditations and play sheets…https://www.eventbrite.com/e/ejaculating-orgasms-the-series-tickets-46802365134

If you know you want your relationships to have long term satisfaction in all areas and you are tired of being turned off contact me today for a sacred conversation.
https://myolawoodsprivatediscussion.as.me/?appointmentType=1307433

Myola Woods is an Author, Certified Sexological Bodyworker, Somatic Sex Educator, International Intimacy & Relationship Coach and Winner of the Altitude Awards, Rising Star – Brave Award 2018.

Contact Myola TODAY!. myola@eroticcoaching.com.au

 

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3 Ways Orgasms can assist your personal development…

Ooo la la, when I say orgasm people get flushed, embarrassed, excited and I bet you have never thought of them as a way of increasing your personal development.

Orgasms are very personal, and if you are not having them, it’s very personal. Orgasms are also very powerful, they contract the body, send happy and good feeling hormones, give a sense of wellbeing, assist with pain reduction, build connector neurons with our Lovers. They can take us to states of bliss, ecstasy and communing with the cosmos.

Often we think our orgasms come from someone else doing something to us, the truth is our orgasmicness comes from ourselves and then we can share add to with someone else.

Our orgasms are a reflection of our lives, are we basking in the glory of them are we too busy running around with our ‘to do’ lists to even think about them, are you hoping one day you will finally get that ultimate fulfilling climax – like the movies.  Are you comfortable – have a reasonable orgasm when you have sex, but you don’t want to go into the realm of ecstasy or deeper more intense, you are just fine. Are you uptight and don’t even know where to begin with an orgasm?  Read my ONE IN EVERY 5 WOMEN NEVER ORGASM!… That Is A Problem… I HAVE THE SOLUTION!! Here…

ONE IN EVERY 5 WOMEN NEVER ORGASM!… That Is A Problem… I HAVE THE SOLUTION!!

 

There are many ways being curious and conscious about our orgasms helps our personal development, let’s begin with 3:

 

  1. Connection:

For any orgasms, then as we delve deeper and more have more intense ones (yes more than one is possible) we need connection:

Firstly, to our bodies, to know and trust them, it is unrealistic to expect someone else to know your body if you don’t – it can and does happen and even in these cases imagine the possibilities if both of you know your body- wowzer! Getting to know and be comfortable with your body is a practice often daily, noticing what it likes and doesn’t, slowing down enough to notice what is actually going on, being present with ourselves.

Secondly, to your partner, are you feeling safe, are you in sync together are you noticing and attending to each other from your own body or are you in their head trying to work out what is going on.

Connection requires a revealing of ourselves, how much do you reveal will depend on how you orgasm… Are you willing to reveal more of you?

  1. Responsibility:

Who is responsible for your orgasm…?

Who do you think, is it you? Them? Or something else?

Essentially you are responsible for your orgasm, we can always choose not to orgasm, this is a space of knowing if your body wants to climax or to circulate or ?. This is not usually the case, often when we don’t orgasm it is because we held back, went into our heads, didn’t ask for what we want, need or desire (does not mean we will get it), or our Lover was selfish and didn’t play, last or get connected enough for you to have an orgasm.

As you work through, how will I ask for what I need? How will I stay connected to my body and my partners without going into my head? How will I say to my partner ‘I would like us to play more, I would like to slow down and enjoy and savour each moment of our love making, I would like us to grow into a space of mutual pleasure?’

Which leads us beautifully to vulnerability.

  1. Vulnerability:

Being vulnerable is often seen as a weakness and we think people will judge us and the truth is it actually brings us closer together.

We connect, we see beyond the persona, the masks, the roles often into someone’s soul their hearts and their authenticity. This level of depth creates intimacy and connection faster than anything else, it does not need to be soppy and sad.

  • Vulnerability is sharing that place in you that you hide from others.
  • Vulnerability is risking speaking, showing parts of you that you think others will judge.
  • Vulnerability is being raw, authentic and open without expectation of the outcome.

I have had to work hard here, being vulnerable, trusting myself and others is still a major learning for me and I know when I have this sensation in my belly and heart that it is time, it is time to express, be seen and let the chips go where they need to go.

Connection, Responsibility and Vulnerability will lead you to greater more satisfying orgasms if you would like support and are interested in more contact me today for a sacred conversation.
https://myolawoodsprivatediscussion.as.me/?appointmentType=1307433

Our lives are not separate, when we increase these areas in our intimacy they reflect in all other parts when we can ask our partners for…?, have discussions around our hidden parts – space frees up and we behave in the world with more genuine authentic interactions.

Myola Woods is an Author, Certified Sexological Bodyworker, Somatic Sex Educator, International Intimacy & Relationship Coach and Winner of the Altitude Awards, Rising Star – Brave Award 2018.

Contact Myola TODAY!. myola@eroticcoaching.com.au

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SEX Is Everywhere… But Please Don’t Mention It!

Generally speaking I call myself The Erotic Coach, and yes just like a business coach helps you with your business and a sports coach with your athletic endeavors, I work with people in their erotic lives, intimate lives, relationships, communication, sensuality, sexuality and be their authentic selves.

Most of us have grown up with society, religious, family and school ideas about sex, often it is not about pleasure, sensation, curiosity and fun… Wouldn’t you agree?

Recently I was the Winner of the Altitude Award ‘Rising Star – Brave Award 2018’ this was so surprising and thrilling for me!.

Surprising because often when I speak of my work people usually have two reactions:

1. They want to run away, wish the floor would open up and they could disappear, I imagine because they are embarrassed about their own love life?

  1. They are totally intrigued (for their friend of course).

In the past when I have applied for expos / festivals, I have incidences where I have been told the event is full and others have said to me “no it’s not but for me it was full” Or people are rude to me because my work involves the discussion of sex and intimacy.

When I speak at networking events often there is a giggle or a joke, I am totally up for fun. I do wonder though if they would think it ok to giggle when my client is sharing about their abuse that they have never told before, the trauma from a miscarriage, the body holding on so tightly afraid from being raped, the shame of getting an STi and general terrible information we have been given about our bodies, sexuality, sensuality and intimacy. I don’t think so either, often it is easier for us to deflect an uncomfortable emotion than to sit with it and notice what is happening in our own bodies. What do you do?

I know from my own experiences that healing, integrating and owning my sexuality, sensuality and intimacy was a very deep personal development project, nothing like I had experienced before. Speaking of these so called ‘taboo’ subjects brings normality – personally I am not into shock tactics, coarse language and creating more divide. I am about bringing safety, wholeness and naturalness to our intimate lives. I am by no means a saint, I am a Mother of 4 teenagers, they see the best and the worst of me and I hope to do my best for a better world for them.

A New Paradigm

In order for us to have a different more sustainable paradigm with our sexuality we need it to be integrated, develop long term new habits, healing of the old patterns and ways. We need new skills for deep connection, love, communication, vulnerability, embodiment, curiosity and practice.

This is what I bring to the world, I started with energetic healing, mediation and body work nearly 25 years ago, with formal education qualifications, I have discovered the space that makes me sing is teaching and healing; the trauma and pain, unloved parts of us, sensuality, sexuality, intimacy, connection, curiosity through embodiment and safety of the body.

My clients get my spirituality, psychic intuitive, educator, sexological bodyworker all rolled into one, the changes that happen to and with them is nothing short of phenomenal.

My clients experiences…

  • Feeling flat, lethargic, not interested in sex to energized, full of zest for life and living, desiring their partner and initiating intimacy.
  • Feeling disconnected, no intimacy, wondering is this the end of the relationship to developing connection, intimacy, trust, curiosity, sacredness and deepening love.
  • Having had a number of poor relationships, feeling like they lack trust in their decisions, alone, unworthy, lacking skills in the bedroom to knowing the relationship, partner they desire and deserve, developing confidence in their body, self esteem, connection and skills as a lover.
  • Pain in the body, pelvis, genitals, disconnected from their sexuality, sexual selves not trusting their body to moving through the pain and into pleasure.
  • Knowing there is more… their sexual life is fine, satisfying mostly, somewhere in their being they know that more is possible, and they are not sure how to achieve this. After developing skills and knowledge of tantra, connection, deep introspection, they increase their embodiment of love, pleasure, sensation, arousal for connected intimate love making and ecstatic sexual experiences.

It brings me so much joy, enthusiasm and vigour to bring this work to you and the world. If your intimate life isn’t how you’d like it to be, you might like to start with a conversation. With me. Here’s how you make it happen:  https://myolawoodsprivatediscussion.as.me/

Myola Woods is an Author, Certified Sexological Bodyworker, Somatic Sex Educator, International Intimacy & Relationship Coach and Winner of the Altitude Awards, Rising Star – Brave Award 2018.

Contact Myola TODAY! myola@eroticcoaching.com.au 0423919270 www.eroticcoaching.com.au

 

Pre orgasmic to premature

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ONE IN EVERY 5 WOMEN NEVER ORGASM!… That Is A Problem… I HAVE THE SOLUTION!!

Only a third of women can consistently have orgasms – This means two thirds are unable to consistently have orgasms.

These statistics break my heart, from my work as a Somatic Sex Educator and my own experience I know there is a different way to be with orgasms.

I hear you saying “Myola, why is it all about orgasm” and I would answer “It is NOT all about orgasm when you have the choice for yourself, when you are staying in your body, following the pleasure and sensation, orgasm is often a byproduct… a natural occurrence from these activities, it is when we have NO choice and we are trying it becomes ALL about the orgasm.

‘Pre orgasmic’ is the technical term, a state of being aroused feeling pleasure and not able to reach climax. The pleasure goes around but never to the peak, I knew this state well, it is pleasureable and also frustrating, feels like it can take forever and waiting for that moment to finally get there, finally have that release.

There are many practices that say not to orgasm, to circulate, these techniques are wonderful to play with once you are at choice with your orgasms and you can choose yes or no. The difference of having no choice is exactly that it does not feel like freedom it feels like frustration.

From pre-orgasmic to premature…

Extremes is somewhere I like to live, for a while where I was a 30 second wonder and mostly I was happy with that, I was done. I have had 4 children, I had 3 under 5 years old during this time I had many experiences with orgasmicness, non orgasmicness, from never coming to super fast.. neither of these felt very satisfying long term or meant I actually knew what I was doing, or my body and I were connected and on the same page.

How did we get here?  Often, we are told Women are more difficult to turn on, more difficult to become aroused, more difficult in general…. Society tells women they shouldn’t like sex – they should be sexy for sure and be objectified but to LIKE, LOVE, DESIRE sex well that’s not ladylike… Bull shit is what I say!

Women are amazing sexual creatures that we hide, to have a full orgasmic life means we need to be fully in life.  We need to be comfortable in our bodies, know them, explore them and let ourselves have and receive pleasure.

Orgasms do amazing healing, cleaning, recalibration of our being and bodies, from improved pelvic health (less incontinence and slight bladder leak) from the increased blood flow and contractions, to the feelings of wellbeing from the hormones being released, to a state of complete relaxation and feeling bliss from your fight, flight or freeze being turned off.

Orgasm School…

It might seem a bit weird to have a sex coach or learn about orgasms, most of us have had poor or little education from school, society, Hollywood or well meaning friends but they are likely to be retrieving information from the same source of misinformation you were exposed to!… If you wanted to have your hair styled for a special event, would you go to your friends/best friend or a qualified hairdresser?… I am qualified to help women experience orgasm.

When I teach women about orgasms, I have strategies and techniques that are proven from me and my clients to work and efficiently with practice to move YOU to YOUR next level of orgasmicness…. These are steps that navigate you through the unknown and safely into your known orgasmic life.

I have an upcoming Orgasm Online Webinar Series, for all levels, from the basics to expanding to ejaculating, if you are intrigued and already having an orgasm, I will help you have more orgasms…If you are not having any orgasms, I will help you to start having orgasms… contact me today for a sacred conversation.
https://myolawoodsprivatediscussion.as.me/?appointmentType=1307433

Myola Woods is an Author, Certified Sexological Bodyworker, Somatic Sex Educator, International Intimacy & Relationship Coach and Winner of the Altitude Awards, Rising Star – Brave Award 2018.

Contact Myola TODAY!. myola@eroticcoaching.com.au0423919270 www.eroticcoaching.com.au

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No. 1 Reason for pain involved with sex revealed!

Guest Blogging for Micki Allen, she is delightful, I feel very blessed.
Have a read and let me you if you agree or not?  I would love to hear from you.

Click here to read now.

If you know you want your relationships to have long term satisfaction in all areas and you are tired of being turned off contact me today for a sacred conversation.
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One good orgasm or multiple orgasms??

What do YOU choose? And what IS the big Deal??

We Don’t Know what we Don’t know….

When I as woman unable to climax ( I felt pleasure and orgasmic energy ), when I wanted…. unable to let go….. uneducated in the ways of arousal, nervous systems and techniques….. thought it was someone’s responsibility…. unable to get out of my own way, I knew there was more AND I had NO idea how to get there …. I sort help…. I practiced …. I got educated!!

At the time I thought there was something WRONG with me, as I can be known to do…. society says it’s easy!! Must be me all by myself struggling to climax…. !!! No one would understand me……

When people meet me or see me presenting at a festival or expo often tell me that they are ok…. they are all good in the sex department….. in the beginning I smiled, said great and curiously asked myself….. it is interesting that they come to tell me they are all good…

I don’t go to the Doctor and say I am well or to fruit shop and say I have plenty of apples…. don’t need those…….

Could it be that we don’t know what we don’t know…..  and we are afraid to ask incase we have been missing out!! Then what do we do…. ? If this gorgeous woman (me) tells them there is more orgasmic potential, more sensation, more pleasure to be had…… my story will be a lie!!!

I was asked this week…. ” i don’t need multiple orgasms, I am pretty happy with my one good orgasm, how much better could multiple ones be?”

I answered with a grin the size of the sun…… “oh my…… they are awesomely fantastic!”

Sometimes we think we have to give up something….. why would I replace little multiple orgasms instead of one good big one. For me it’s not about giving up anything…. it’s about EXPANSION, value adding and what else is possible?

What if you could have big multiple orgasms…. small orgasms…. intense orgasms…. subtle orgasms….. ? ( I could go on ) Increased your RANGE of orgasms!!

O R G A S M M A S T E R Y!!

You could choose your orgasm…. which will I have now….. hmmm smorgasbord of orgasms….. delicious ……. hmmmm which will I have now….. and now …… and and N O W??

If you would like to expand your orgasm menu, message me now and let the orgasms begin!!

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What is a Certified Sexological Bodyworker?

Sexological bodywork is a pioneering profession which assists people to become more aware of their bodies and to connect more with their erotic, sensual and sexual selves. This is done through a variety of methods including; information sharing, teaching body awareness exercises (involving breath, sound and movement) and massage/bodywork to increase awareness of sensation and pleasure in the body.

Sexological bodywork is about working with you to pass on life-changing skills that will empower you to take charge of your own sexualness and sexual life.

It is the sex education we never received!

Areas which can be covered:
Increase your intimacy skills
Increase your body awareness, knowledge and capacity
Issues of low or non-existent libido

Find your mojo and connect it with your sexy soulful self

Erectile difficulty
Inability to orgasm, solo or partnered
Expanding your orgasm potential
Scar tissue remediation (from childbirth or other surgery)
Pelvic pain remediation
Anal awareness, for health and consciousness
Prostate massage
Taoist Erotic Massage
Self -pleasuring skills
Erotic awareness practices

Making Love becoming your meditation practice
Overcoming early ejaculation
Moving through sexual trauma and shame

Communication skills

Knowing and owning your likes, desires and how to ask and be heard.

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10 Years NO Sex….

Hasn’t had PARTNERED sex in 10 YEARS!!

Could This happen to YOU?

What are the reasons we put our pleasure off? Someday I will have it?

I have more and more clients that haven’t had sex in a very long time some more than 10 years…..

I really get the sense that it starts off with good intentions, my last relationships were not so good so I will focus on developing myself spiritually, personal development work, self help seminars, chakras, past lives, meditation and more…..

Wanting to be different and somewhere amongst the all they became lost in keeping people at bay, being socially happy, whilst underneath they are busy holding all the balls under the water so they don’t escape, the sadness stays hidden, their desire dwindles and they decide intimacy is not for me ( Consciously or unconsciously ) who needs it, more trouble than it’s worth.

Any chance YOU have thought this?

I am not suggesting a life of celibacy is terrible if that is what you choose.

These people are not choosing this, they say they would like to have partnered intimacy and love. Somewhere they choose all or nothing if I can’t have it all then NOTHING it is.

Not wanting to risk being hurt or being wrong! Wanting too much!!

Over these years of little intimacy they have lost their:

  • Body confidence
  • Mojo
  • Memory
  • Desire
  • Openness
  • Curiosity

Often replaced with:

  • Walls of…. steel / wire / rock
  • Chained gates
  • Denial
  • Contraction
  • Closed interactions
  • Amour

When people come to see me from this place there is usually lots of healing, sadness, regret, guilt, all the feelings they have been hiding.

So putting in perspective that 10 years that’s more than 3652 days of

no intimate touch,

no snuggling on the lounge,

no deep kissing,

no quickies,

no longies……

The clients that seek me out are wanting it all they want a deep loving Conscious relationship!!

They know to have significant change they need to be and do something significant over time, someone to be accountable to, so they can commit to their intimate lives, not give up and STOP listening to the stories in their head.

Maybe it’s not 10 years….. if it has been too long with NO intimacy there is hope…. you do not have to wait any longer.

If the time is ripe….. if the time is NOW!

If you are committed with your time, tenacity, transformation, financially and have decided It’s YOUR time then message me today because you deserve sexual wholeness.

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Pleasure, LOVE in MOTION !!

There is a place beyond you and me….. I’ll meet you there…. Rumi

When we connect with someone on a deep soul level our sex and our love making become transformational experiences.

A place where the ego is dropped, the masks disappear and raw vulnerability lies, the juiciness of aliveness and the death of ways of incongruous being are no longer supported.

When the body heals through pleasure it is the bodies choice…. not our minds …. not even our hearts ….. because the body has those memories of trauma, grief, loss, abuse in the cells…. often we trap both the perceived good and not so……

If we allow ourselves our love making can heal us from the inside out….. it can be a place where the body feels safe, feels open with pleasure rather than pain or “pushing through” it’s the body making the choices, it’s the body leading, the body awakens releases and chooses different because it feels it’s time. This does not always look pretty and it is always altering of the way we be. When we let pleasure have its way with us….. we are never the same!!!!!!!

When I had my paradigm shift from pain to pleasure I realised lots of my body contractions were stored caused by pain of some description, both from the self and others.

As time progressed and my body opened more to the idea and the actualisation of pleasure it became freer internally and externally. I was gaining FREEDOM by receiving, allowing and having more pleasure in my life…..

It also meant I grieved long standing parts of me, my life and being as they came to an end. As I was more there were and continue to be parts that die away and sometimes I have been very comfortable, die away and sometimes I have been very comfortable, like my favorite chair that knows my ass and what it likes and there is sadness and wonder will my new chair, will there even be a chair, will it be as good…. oh dear what if I make a mistake??

Pleasure for me is LOVE

  • Love in motion
  • Love in feeling
  • Love in sensation
  • Love in action

In the same way love can be many things …..

  • Gentle
  • Kind
  • Forgiving
  • Fierce
  • Strong
  • Relentless
  • Giving
  • Receiving
  • Mutually receptive

SO is pleasure…….

As life progresses, I become more love, more pleasure and my life changes. My body and I make different choices.

If you allowed your sex to be transformative…… what could change ? What choices could be different?

What would it take to let pleasure have its way with YOU?

Pleasure, LOVE in MOTION !!