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How do we befriend our body – when we’ve treated it like an enemy Part 2
Images of people eating and holding their bodies Now that the war has ceased, or at least a white flag has been raised, we can start to create dialogue and communication with…

How to befriend your body part 1
Embodied people enjoying their bodies How do we befriend our body – when we’ve treated it like an enemy Part 1 Compassion Often our bodies are instruments of forgetfulness, disconnection, mistrust and…

Are Fantasies Ruining Your Sex Life?
FANTASIES ARE EVERYWHERE, THE NEW BLACK! WHAT ARE YOUR FANTASIES? WHO IS IN YOUR FANTASIES? The dictionary says fantasies are: imagination, especially when extravagant and unrestrained. the forming of mental images, especially…

Is your sex programmed? The art and subtlety of sex
We all know that we are pretty much programmed; what we watch, what we listen to, what we choose to eat, the events that we attend, friends we hang out with. We…

Authentic Relating – Staying Connected when things get tough
Full of rosebuds, sun shining brightly, gentle breezes and rainbows That is the fairy tale that we are brought up on, that we aspire to and what we believe in. But like…

Before YOU have the AFFAIR – READ THIS!
Whilst you probably think I am going to be all judgmental, come down on you and tell you not to have the affair – that may not be the case. Although after…

3 Ways to enhance your relationship - Ignite the magic.
Who believes relationships should be magic? Who wants more intimacy and connection? As mammals we are designed to desire connection, no matter how independent we want to think we are, our innate…

Who is the GIFT for?
As we move away from Christmas and into Valentines Day… Who is the gift for? Do you like giving gifts? Do you think they are a waste of time? Why do you…

10 Reasons To Have Your YONI(Vulva) Mapped and How It Can Heal.
In ancient times women had temples, to heal, to learn, to weave their magic. Thetemples were safe places for knowledge transference, womb stories, and the sharing of the mystic mysteries of women…

New Shocking Survey reveals 1 in 10 people look at their phones during sex?
I thought this was a joke, I was chatting with a friend and discussing addictions to phones, devices etc and my friend said ‘I bet they are looking at them during sex’…

4 Alternatives To Hollywood Movies For Intimate Education
Would you use the movies for driving education, imagine using Fast and Furious for your next drive to the shop, for all our sakes I am hoping you are saying: “No” Watching…

Increase your sexual connection through masterful touch
So excited to be featured as a Sexpert on Adult Match Maker and included in their blogs. Touch is so important, the quality and how do we ask and receive the touch…

What Wikipedia can’t tell you about sensuality?
If you rely on Google for your sexual education, you're likely to already be disappointed with your findings. Studies claim women lose interest in sex before men in long-term relationships. But that…

How female ejaculators are making the world a better place!
Did you know only 6% of women ejaculate regularly? Over 50% of women have had some liquid during orgasm Are you one of these? Have you ever had the urge to pee…

3 Ways Orgasms can assist your personal development…
Ooo la la, when I say orgasm people get flushed, embarrassed, excited and I bet you have never thought of them as a way of increasing your personal development. Orgasms are very…

SEX Is Everywhere… But Please Don’t Mention It!
Generally speaking I call myself The Erotic Coach, and yes just like a business coach helps you with your business and a sports coach with your athletic endeavors, I work with people…

ONE IN EVERY 5 WOMEN NEVER ORGASM!… That Is A Problem… I HAVE THE SOLUTION!!
Only a third of women can consistently have orgasms – This means two thirds are unable to consistently have orgasms. These statistics break my heart, from my work as a Somatic Sex…

No. 1 Reason for pain involved with sex revealed!
Guest Blogging for Micki Allen, she is delightful, I feel very blessed. Have a read and let me you if you agree or not? I would love to hear from you. Click…

One good orgasm or multiple orgasms??
What do YOU choose? And what IS the big Deal?? We Don't Know what we Don't know.... When I as woman unable to climax ( I felt pleasure and orgasmic energy ),…

What is a Certified Sexological Bodyworker?
Sexological bodywork is a pioneering profession which assists people to become more aware of their bodies and to connect more with their erotic, sensual and sexual selves. This is done through a…

10 Years NO Sex....
Hasn't had PARTNERED sex in 10 YEARS!! Could This happen to YOU? What are the reasons we put our pleasure off? Someday I will have it? I have more and more clients…

Pleasure, LOVE in MOTION !!
There is a place beyond you and me..... I'll meet you there.... Rumi When we connect with someone on a deep soul level our sex and our love making become transformational experiences.…

ORGASMs!!! Yes I said it!
We all want them.... If we are having them we desire more? If we are not.... we want them.... If they are alluding.... we are trying to catch them.... If they are…

THE REALMS of INTIMACY!
You Deserve to Have a Fulfilling, EnJoyable SEXlife? Are you stepping UP? How can it be that you have success in nearly all areas but you still want more? Do you have…

Scar Tissue / Pain associated with sex
Hello Wonderful Explorers I do hope this finds you erotically well, full of life and living. As I like to always be learning and growing, I attended a workshop with an Amazing…

From Tight to Blossoming
“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom” Anais Nin There comes a time when we have…

Erotic Meditation
An erotic life everyday? We are often told that eroticness and sexualness is wrong. If we are essentially created by sexual / erotic energy could we say that it is our natural…
